I use what ever I have and will fit . I use big patchs with small rod/end piece or a small patch with a large rod/end piece . The only time I have issue with the size of the patch is in my .22 barrels . I'll even wrap the patch around the bore brush and push it through the barrel . That works real well with shotguns .
If everybody has a problem with you and you have a problem with everybody .
It's not everybody that has the problem