I just sit where it is convenient, or where I can see and hear if a movie.
If I had any idea that the odds of someone coming in and shooting the place up were other than miniscule I would not go.
I don't build my life or actions around self defense or fear of attack. I don't even worry about where I am in the "color code."
Somehow it has worked for me and mine, and I might add all the people that I personally know. Very few who even carry.
Ecclesiastes 12:13 *¶Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man.
14 *For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil.