With your criteria, XDm .45 in your choice of barrel length, FNP .45, or M&P 45 with 14 round optional mag.
Large frame glocks have never fit me. Get above .40, and it's not for me.
VIGILIA PRETIUM LIBERTATIS
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America is at an awkward stage. It's too late to work within the system, but too early to shoot the bastards.