Well... I bought a hornady cam lock puller for the .223 rounds and all is well!!! That tool is amazing, I was able to pull the 900 rounds I made of .223 that were off on the headspace and resized and resat and crimped them progressively on my Dillon 550 in about 3-4 hours carefully.
If there is one thing I learned with the .308 issue, is headspace is hugely important and I will NEVER allow multiple rounds running through my press that are slightly off like that because that task could have been Hell without that tool!!!