I really like the new version Lee 125gr RF. Drops out at 130gr and with 3gr Clays it seems to shoot pretty good and absolutely no kick in 38spl shot from my 357. It'll make a fun rabbit load this winter. I aint chrono'ed them.
I have the 100gr FN Ranch Dog for 380's (shoots great) and really want to try that one in 38's. That is a very sweet little bullet.