The other item is quite simple. Have you ever pulled the trigger in a real world in-home encounter with one or multiple bad guys?
In home: No
In real life: Yes
. I was licensed and carried professionally in California from 1992 - 1999. During that time I had to drop the hammer on someone. Been through the Homicide investigation and DA review that went with it.
Drawn more than once during that time frame but only had to go all the way once.