I have a 7 shot 2¼" barrel 357 Magnum snubnose as my EDCG. I load it with Fiocchi® 357 Magnum 158gr XTP™HP's It is a fixed sight revolver. It is way more accurate, with far less recoil; than any 125gr loading. My advice to you would be: CARRY THE JHP THAT IS MOST ACCURATE IN YOUR GUN.
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