All I am going to say is we put up with far too much bad behavior in this country. The result is an excessive amount of legal wrangling over obvious evil acts and those performing those acts become accustomed to getting away with their crimes.
She was absolutely in the moral right to draw he gun and point it at him. Whether or not this satisfies the silly legal requirements of her state is a different problem. Most of us know the law has nothing to do with morality and everything to do with a bunch of idiots sitting in a room in the capitol deciding how everyone should behave.