You have spoken with these people personally?
After being shot with a .357 did they cry out "oh lord why did I have to get shot by the dreaded .357, why couldn't he have shot me with just a lowly 115gr 9mm instead. Oh lord why did that .357 round have to have that extra 10 grains of weight and couple hundred FPS, if it was moving a tad slower I would probably be fine and this hole in my lung would be no big deal".
Actually? yes I did speak with lots of them, and work the crime scene, and see them at the hospital and / or morgue. There is no reason for you to be a smart ass.