It's just that some guy's think because they are big other people quake and run away.
Who here has ever made the argument that little guys will just run away from them because they're big? I certainly haven't and I've not noticed anyone else making such an argument either. The only reason that I ever brought up my physical size was to illustrate that I'm most likely
to be attacked by a very large person and thus find it prudent to place a caliber that will likely perform well on a larger-than-average sized person high on my priority list. The original point that I was trying to make was that because I'm more likely to face one or two very large individuals than several small-to-average size individuals, caliber is higher on my priority list than capacity is.