It might help us provide an answer if you gave us specific examples... especially since this is your first post here in 3 1/2 years....
Still happily answering to the call-sign Peetza.
The problem, as you so eloquently put it, is choice.
He is no fool who gives what he can not keep to gain what he can not lose.
-Jim Eliott, paraphrasing Philip Henry.
Last edited by Brian Pfleuger; November 14, 2012 at 01:00 PM.