If I understand you correclty . You are trying to find the distance to a known sized target using your reticle like a mil-dot reticle ?
If you are using the 8.3 MOA measurement to find the distance to a known sized target you will use the full 8.3 MOA . 8'3MOA is about 2.5 mils
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