I ama 357 fan boy but generally speaking I feel from a pistol the 10mm is typically slightly better. While there is exceptions such as Buffalo Bore generally this is true.
Shot placement is everything! I would rather take a round of 50BMG to the foot than a 22short to the base of the skull.
all 26 of my guns are 45/70 govt, 357 mag, 22 or 12 ga... I believe in keeping it simple. Wish my wife did as well...