The OP has asked this same question, phrased slightly differently, with threads he started at least three times. This is a revolver forum, what exactly do you expect in terms of replies ?
The pros and cons of revolvers as carry guns have been listed. Youre a pilot. You have to make decisions. List the advantages & disadvantages and choose.
If you cant choose between them, . . . get a Glock or an M&P, & a S&W J frame as a back up gun (BUG) and carry them both. Many do this.