I think a few of us need to take a deep breath and back down a notch or three.
Stop picking fights and looking for any little phrase to which we can take an offense.
Stop nit-picking every little phrase that we might have worded in way you don't like.
Knock it off with the "You're paranoid", "No I'm not!" nonsense.
If you don't want to carry in your house, don't, and feel free to say why. If you want to carry 24/7, go right ahead, and feel free to say why you do. Leave out the implications (or outright statements) of paranoia or irresponsibility for others who do different.
Kick it back a couple notches. No one's choices here effect any one else.
Still happily answering to the call-sign Peetza.
The problem, as you so eloquently put it, is choice.
He is no fool who gives what he can not keep to gain what he can not lose.
-Jim Eliott, paraphrasing Philip Henry.