Posts 2, 3 and 4 cover the ground. Real life, serious, personal legal matters should not be discussed in public with a bunch of strangers.
The OP needs a lawyer and has gotten some help finding one. Nothing more to discuss here.
"It is long been a principle of ours that one is no more armed because he has possession of a firearm than he is a musician because he owns a piano. There is no point in having a gun if you are not capable of using it skillfully." -- Jeff Cooper