Me and the 'ol lady use codes...but she knows if I go for my pump stand behind me!
You want your wife behind you
in a shootout?!
Still happily answering to the call-sign Peetza.
The problem, as you so eloquently put it, is choice.
He is no fool who gives what he can not keep to gain what he can not lose.
-Jim Eliott, paraphrasing Philip Henry.