"Really? Doesn't this seem a little excessive to stand guard with a drawn weapon every time your wife uses an ATM."
I must need to elaborate. I stay in the car, weapon drawn from my 6, and ready at my side, out of sight. I don't stand there beside her with it in my hand.
If you knew the neighborhood, you'd probably ask why I'm not standing beside her with an AR, hand on trigger, and tactical gear on.