I have my P220r on my side all day everyday. If I am walking through my house it is tucked in my holster. It is not being paranoid, it is being prepared. I will not be caught without it in a time of need. As far as safe places, there are no places safe enough for me to not have added protection for me and my family. I carry mine loaded and never think twice. This is however, the reason I carry a SA/DA pistol. I like having a hammer for my personal preference.
" The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to
keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect
themselves against tyranny in Government...." - Thomas Jefferson