BTW, do people usually fight so much on this forum?
Because these thread would be far less fun and far less interesting if we didn't!
Also the crabby ol' TFL vets need to bicker with the newer members. It's just how it works. Usually its in good fun.
That said I'd strongly recommend the Kahr in 9mm. I'm not a huge .40 guy though. but the Kahr in 9mm is quite controllable and has less of a learning curve. I'm not sure how experienced you are in firearms but that's my 2 cents