Range test several to find one you like best. Accuracy, recoil, and function matter. In my limited tests with my S&W M&P360 I found Remingtion .357mag GoldenSaber 125gr to have least recoil with good accuracy plus good penetration and expansion in wetpacks. Using 38spcial just didn't cut it even though recoil is less.
If it's .357mag then that's what to use.