I also like the 124 gr. Gold Dots in either standard or +P. I do have some 115 gr., though, and would not feel under armed with them.
Jim's Rules of Carry: 1. Any gun is better than no gun. 2. A gun that is reliable is better than a gun that is not. 3. A hole in the right place is better than a hole in the wrong place. 4. A bigger hole is a better hole.
no guns = might makes right