Shot placement, shot placement, shot placement. It's not a split decision between caliber and shot placement, not even close. Would you rather take a .22lr to the eye, or a 50 BMG to the big toe?
However, two shots to the same place, I'd rather have a bigger hole, and better penetration. YMMV.
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