Did you show your wife an M&P9c the compact is usually a good choice for woman and people with small hands.
I did. She's not a huge fan of it for some reason. She also likes the trigger on the Glocks and SR9cs much better.
Thanks for your comments on the SR9c! I think she probably prefers that one. My only concern was the small size and the recoil it might have. But your wife found yours very controllable?