Yeah I got it Brian. Not trying to be cheeky with you, but I know how a good marriage works, been doing it myself for awhile now.
I know I can't be the first guy to do this, and I think I'm just looking for some "you'll live" type of affirmations
All of my friend's have wives who are her friends and all my friends tell their wives everything, so my friends are useless to me right now. (-.-)