I have the opposite problem. When I take my wife out to a good restaurant, I like to have a cocktail so I don't carry. I strictly observe the separation of guns and alcohol.
Sometimes when someone enters the restaurant who looks shabby or otherwise less than an upstanding citizen, she asks me if I have my gun and gets nervous if I don't. She has a license but doesn't carry -- that's another story.
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