thx for the update fxdrider, that was one of my reads on this. he probably has no clue what to do(1st step being call you about it
), and he knows he is in the wrong so doesn't even have that mindset right now...aka: it is the least of his worries and he knows you are taking care of them. the mom mentioning it might get a tfl thread but anything else is few and far between. that is why I told Aguilar I disagree andor don't see any point in you paying for lawyer advice(I think they give fifteen minutes for free
)....the ball isn't really in your court unless you decide to be generous.....back to my other point though, this is a serious situation and does desever thought before action.
all the best