if a pocket holster doesn't work out for ya.then I would look into a holster that you can carry behind the waist band.then the safety would be at your back and harder for it to be moved.( thats if you are right handed )
but for me right now when I carry my wifes little P238 I just carry with a pocket holster.I have never thought about the people in front of me.( even at church )
life is great but its better when you can own as many guns you wish to own.for me I haven't bought enough yet.