Have you been to the two instructors classes and seen how they act/train? I have not been in many training classes, but I have seen several instructors who were quite competent instructors for males but were very simply... ... ... ?horn dogs? when interacting with female students.
Yes, I have. It's not a horn dog problem or anything like it. Instructor A markets his classes as macho high speed low drag stuff, while Instructor B markets to beginners and focuses all his advertising on the female market. (He points out that the men will come, regardless...) There's also some demographic difference in their respective locations, and that's all I'm willing to say since I wasn't intending to name names!