I have re-read your post in detail, and stand by my book recommendations.
That said, I feel that you are over-thinking this problem (if it is a problem). Are you shooting competitively?
Perhaps shooting in that kind of environment will help with recoil management and follow ups.
One of the things I like about Rob Pincus is his discussion of the role of intuition in defensive shooting. I believe that it has helped me to shoot faster with reasonable precision.
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