I don't have a comment on your grip problem except to say that I don't know how you're getting that high on the grip with it"s deep valley in the backstrap. I want to congratulate you on your purchase. I have a P94 which is the metal framed version of the P95 and it is the auto in my large collection that I know will go bang every time. Never had a stoppage no matter what ammo I feed her. Even some nasty stuff that had been on my saltwater boat for no telling how long.
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