You need to address your concerns to PAX.
If it was me, I'd take a week or so vacation time, stay home with the babies and send wife to PAX.
I'm a firearms instructor, been one since the mid 70s, I got three girls that I care about, so I'm trying work a deal to have her work with my girls this summer.
She deals with ladies and know their problems and how to get to them.
CPT USAR Ret
USAMU Sniper School Oct '78
Distinguished Rifle Badge 1071