You're telling me. If I hadn't been decidedly freaked out, I would probably have found it a bit funny.
that now that guy knows where you live
That would be my foremost concern
I much prefer heroin addicts, they at least ask for money nicely before attempting to rob you and if they steal your TV, they are at least courteous enough to sell it back to you.
The fiancee talk occurred last evening, she's thinking about it...then again, the fact is that she does not like guns, on the plus side that does not mean that she doesn't know how to use them. The conundrum is whether or not she would.