Believe it or not.. I walked into Wholesale Sports (Canada's large sports store) and asked for .308 norma dies.. The guy behind the counter laughed and said "Geez I just received 2 in stock, first our store has gotten". They are RCBS dies.. I did some quick searching on the internet and your buddy should be able to find them easily enough.
For a load.. You can use any 30-338 load. We found a load on a sniper forum (snipers hide) that we choose. It was tested by a few people on there and they verified its very accurate and hard hitting.
200gn Nosler Partition
64.5gn of IMR 4350
I have heard that some Norma's can be picky so I was very careful to trim the brass to factory specs.