garryc: ...The dealer wrote the trust....
Good grief man.
I would immediately contact my own attorney to review that trust document. There is no telling what nightmare you guys may be in for.
For starters.........that dealer is an idiot:
1. He used Quicken Willmaker
2. He's practicing law without a license.
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