chances are no you wont be able to use that bulltet in both guns. you need to slug both barrels to be sure. 9mm is usually .356 while 38/357 is .358. unless you 9mm slugs at .358, I havent seen a 9mm yet that was that loose. as for letting midway choose your sizer and top punch, don't know about letting someone else do that for me without slugging the barrels you guessing anyway. others may chime in differently.
22LR,17hmr, 9mm, 9mm makarov, 38 S&W, 38/357, 41mag, 44mag, 45ACP, 7.62x39, 7.62x54, 222rem