Taking ownership is a step.
Reconcilliation and forgiveness of self is a step.
You have done me no wrong,so no worry there.
I think some about which dog I feed.What do I want to support ?
There is something about being a parent/grandparent that makes me ask myself questions like that of myself.
I also think ,in cyber world as in real life,where am I likely to find a virus?
It might also be reasonable to consider "When am I revealing too much information?"
Some things,I just don't need to know.Its about taking care of yourself.
I don't need to know what a married couple does,either.
I do have the impression you are a gentleman,HB.
Remember Jimmy Carter's confession?