I'm a male, 5'8", 160lbs, but I was blessed (if you can call it that) with small hands. Size 8 gloves fit me with room to spare.
That's why I like my S&W J-frames, and my Beretta 87 is about as big as I can handle. The rifles and shotguns aren't much of a problem, but they're on the small side as well.
I don't know is helpful to you, but it's just my two cents.