It's sad that people ruin it for the rest of us... I am a Ebay seller only and I get people asking me questions all the time I'm generally prompt with my answers and I even offer my phone number because I'm not afraid of them thinking that I'm going to scam them, because I'm not.
There are good people out there, and some that are not so good.
I've had issues before when I wasn't able to ship something right away but I generally contact the buyer and they are pretty forgiving as are most people when they are informed about things.
Ebay is like owning guns, some of them make the sport and the online experience great... some make it not-so-worthwhile.
There's no place like 127.0.0.1
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