Originally Posted by Rojoe67
Thanks for responding..... Sorry if you took this out of context? I was putting it simple...... Someone needs to grab the bull by the horns and lead..... That said it depends on your location..... I think your picking this apart just a tad more than it needs to be.
No, he's not. I got the same impression that he did, and I got it from what you wrote. That's a hint. I have no idea what you actually say to people, but I know what you wrote.
One can diplomatically ensure that proper supervision or cooperation takes place, and one can unilaterally declare himself in charge. The latter is usually fairly stupid, or at best impolite, in a situation involving armed adults.